Monday, December 22, 2008
Have beautiful times with your family
Friday, December 19, 2008
Teaching Kids Manners :-)
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Friday, December 12, 2008
Music and the dying
A Massachusetts snowstorm had arrived, complete with news warnings to stay off the roads. When I called to see if I could reschedule my appointment to play for a hospice patient until the next morning, the distraught wife said that she didn't think her husband would make it until then. I assured her I was on my way, and offered a silent prayer that I would get there in time. I finally arrived at the residence in the next town in near zero visibility. In the sickroom, the husband, unconscious, was breathing difficult, stertorous breaths. I quietly introduced myself, and began to play. After about 20 minutes, his breathing seemed to ease. About an hour later, the patient seemed relaxed and peaceful. He was breathing normally. My car crawled through the falling darkness, taking three times longer than usual to return home. The next morning, I received a call from the hospice. The gentleman passed away approximately an hour after I left his bedside. The wife wanted to express her thanks for the music that preceded his peaceful death. I was filled with emotion and gratitude for the privilege of being a part of this calling. I was the one who was truly blessed. Patricia Larkin, CMP, plays harp at the bedside for the Visiting Nurse Association & Hospice in Springfield, Massachusetts.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
*** Simplify ***
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Have you ever thought of what keys are made of?
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Looing for the perfect gift?
Monday, November 10, 2008
Monday, November 3, 2008
Mama to Mama
I thought I'd leave you with this wonderful blog to consider. I know some of you are crafters, and this seemed a beautiful outlet for those handmade items. I read Amanda Soule's personal family blog almost every day, and relish her simple and holistic ways. Maybe you will too.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Monday, October 27, 2008
A dream of mine
Mr. D, an 87-year-old man with congestive heart failure, was the first person I played for during my MHTP internship. The nurses thought he would like to hear some music and that it would bring him comfort.
Mr. D greeted me with a smile. Reclining on his bed, he took me by surprise when he told me that he wished he could be at the opera that afternoon. "Oh?" I asked. "Why, yes," he replied. "Today is Sunday, isn't it?"
It was Tuesday, and there was no opera in town. But there was a flutist who could play classical music for Mr. D, and that is what I did for the next 20 minutes. While I played, he leaned back and closed his eyes peacefully. After each piece, he smiled and asked who the composer was. As I left, he thanked me. Mr. D was extremely pleasant and genuinely appreciated the live flute music that he heard that day.
Over the next two weeks, I played for different residents each time I went to the nursing home. One day, during a discussion with my supervisor about playing for some residents on a more regular basis, I said that I would like to play for Mr. D again.
"Oh... he passed," she informed me. "Oh," I answered, with a strange feeling in the pit of my stomach. "You just never know," she added.
You just never know. This really brought home to me that each time we play for someone, it makes a difference. It could be the last opportunity to bring music into that person's life.
Later, I read Mr. D's obituary in the newspaper. "He had a life-long passion for the opera and was a member of the Metropolitan Opera Guild," it said.
You just never know. In MHTP, we learn to be "in the moment" with people for whom we play - and to be open to whatever happens - many times not knowing where that moment will lead. Each moment spent in a therapeutic music session has the potential to bring a profound sense of meaning, beauty and comfort to another person, no matter what stage of life or circumstance.
I was honored to have spent a few quiet moments with Mr. D, sharing the classical music that he so loved in what was to be one of his final days. I will remember him fondly as the first person I played for in my MHTP internship. from Linda Grobman
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Babies have sense of rhythm
Friday, October 17, 2008
Thursday, October 16, 2008
pull up a chair and sit a spell, mom
Friday, October 10, 2008
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Monday, September 29, 2008
Ave Maria - James Hill
A seemingly innocuous instrument in the hands of an artist can produce something that is truly magical. James Hill performs Ave Maria by Franz Schubert on ukelele. Press pause down below to mute the blog music and enjoy a quiet moment with this beautiful piece.
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Pancake Day
Press pause down below so you'll mute the music, and listen with your kids to this little quirky pancake video. We're doing Pancake Day in Our Time right now. Flip it high! Flip it low! Those that come after may sing Heigh Ho! :-) Enjoy and have a wonderful weekend! (I'm starting to crave a pancake.)
Sunday, September 21, 2008
To my child
Just for this morning, I will let you choose what you want to wear, and smile and say how perfect it is.
Just for this morning, I am going to step over the laundry, and pick you up and take you to the park to play.
Just for this morning, I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon, I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.
Just for this afternoon, I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck, and I will buy you one if he comes by.
Just for this afternoon, I will not worry about what you are going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.
Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.
Just for this evening, I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.
Just for this evening, I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.
Just for this evening, I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch and count the stars.
Just for this evening, I will snuggle beside you for hours, and miss my favorite TV shows.
Just for this evening, when I run my fingers thru your hair, I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever. I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, and the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms, and mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly, and screaming inside that they can't handle it anymore.
And when I kiss you goodnight I will hold you a little bit tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask Him for nothing, except one more day.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Monday, September 15, 2008
Do you Facebook?
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Benefits Package
"Children currently enrolled in Kindermusik showed higher levels of self-control than those never enrolled and those previously enrolled. ...This suggests that in order for children to reap the benefit of increased self-control as a result of Kindermusik participation, it is important to have repeated and recent Kindermusik experiences and remain enrolled in the program."
"Four-year-old children who had been exposed to Kindermusik for longer periods of time are better off in terms of self-control—namely a child's ability to plan, guide, and control their own behavior—than similar children with less Kindermusik history. These experiences, stop-go, high-low, fast-slow, short-long, and loud-soft, whereby children's motor behavior is guided by the music, appear to be good exercise for young children's emerging self-regulatory skills."
The study, "The Effects of Kindermusik on Behavioral Self-Regulation in Early Childhood," was conducted in 2005 in the psychology department at George Mason University in Virginia. Results were made available to Kindermusik in May, 2005. The study was conducted by Adam Winsler Ph.D and graduate student Lesley Ducenne in the Department of Psychology at George Mason University. The 15-month study included 91 children between the ages of 3 and 5 who were split into three groups: 23 students currently enrolled in Kindermusik, 19 students previously enrolled in Kindermusik, and 49 students of similar family backgrounds from local preschools who had never had Kindermusik.
The children were observed doing a variety of tasks that required self-control such as slowing down their motor behavior, delaying their gratification, refraining from touching attractive but forbidden toys, quietly whispering, and compliance with instructions to initiate or stop certain behaviors. Parents also completed surveys.The study was supervised by Adam Winsler, Ph.D, Applied Developmental Psychology in the Department of Psychology at George Mason University.
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Do you blog?
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Kindermusik House
We are doing "Great Big House" in Our Time (18 months to 3 1/2 years) right now to demonstrate high and low in music. You will see the real man who sings this song! This was made at Kindermusik HQ in Greensboro, N.C. Go to the bottom of the blog and press pause in the music box so you can enjoy this video. See you in class next week!
Thursday, September 4, 2008
They Might Be Giants
I'm so tired, but happy! It has been a very busy first week of fall semester! I don't have much else but this cute video. It is very kid-friendly and they will love it.
Monday, September 1, 2008
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Monday, August 25, 2008
Separation Anxiety
For some ideas about on how to prepare your child for this big day read this nice article from Mommy and Me.
Friday, August 22, 2008
What does Kindermusik REALLY do?
Back from Oregon
Florence, OR - Driftwood Shores
a dear, dear friend Dick Randle- still lives in the house next door to where I grew up in Junction City....he had a major impact on my life and I adore him as my second dad
Friday, August 15, 2008
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Nothing like face-to-face
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Singing a friend farewell
Hi everyone, I thought you might be interested in how our "farewell concert" of sorts went. (The background for those who don't remember is that a dear friend - the director of a folk dance ensemble where I danced and sang for 10 years - was dying, had refused treatment, and we decided to get a group together to go sing to him, rather than waiting for his funeral.)
It was, quite frankly, amazing. Some 35 people showed up, including some who were in this ensemble back in the 70s. We thought we had to shift gears at first because his room was too small and the rehab folks said they couldn't move his bed to the lounge. They wanted to put him in a reclining wheelchair, but he said he didn't want to be moved out of bed. Then our stage manager - a big, burly, tattooed guy- went to talk to someone and lo and behold, they agreed to move him.
We were all assembled in the lounge when he was wheeled in and I think it was a bit overwhelming at first, seeing us all. We began to sing the folk songs from his homeland (Macedonia), and as we started singing, his eyes lit up. He was too weak to do much, but he did start moving one hand, as if he were conducting us. At one point, heeven clapped ever so quietly after a song. Such little gestures spokesuch volumes! During one song, a few folks danced a little line dance around his bed. He tried to talk, and when we got close enough to hear him, he was whispering "Lift your feet!" Still directingus!!
We sang for about 20-25 minutes, then it was clear that he was really tired. So my husband and I started singing a quiet song, and we moved to the back of the room so we could become background music. (This was unplanned, mind you, it just happened organically. ) One or two people joined us and we sang and hummed quietly while the troupe members took their final bow - each, in turn, bowing over his bed and telling him just how much he, and the ensemble, and meant to them. How lovely it was of this man to choose to die in a way that allowed us to make our goodbyes to him, and to honor him while he was still living. He died this afternoon, with four or five of the "troupies"around him at the time. Thank you all so much for the encouragement and hugs you sent. I can only hope that when it's my turn to go, my friends will come and sing me out as well. Martie
Monday, August 4, 2008
Turn off the TV
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Babies
I love watching young children. They amaze me, especially the babies. There are so many skills that they acquire in the their first year. They go from little bundles that cry, eat, sleep, and make LOTS of dirty diapers to crawling, walking, running, babbling, finger-feeeding bundles of energy. I am convinced I could never learn that much in a year!
In as little as the first three months, you may notice that your baby already recognizes your voice and quiets or smiles when they see or hear you. By 4-6 months, your baby is likely noticing sounds and visually tracking the direction of the sound. He will have a variety of sounds that he can make, including some consonant sounds like p, b, or m.
Somewhere around their first birthday you will see that they have progressed to playing peek-a-boo, responding to simple requests such as "come here" or "hand me the cup", and will even begin speaking their first words.
In order to help with this amazing progression, try some of these suggestions:
*Play finger plays and other games with your child, such as itsy bitsy spider and patty cake
*Talk, talk, talk to your child
*Reinforce your babies attempts at communication by mimicking their sounds and maintaining eye contact
*Play around with animal sounds
Thanks, Aimee for ideas
Monday, July 28, 2008
I am so ready for Oregon
Before we go, my sister comes to visit Wednesday from Kansas. She'll be staying a week with us and is bringing her little 2 year old son with her.
Summer camps were so fun! I enjoyed them VERY much this year. You are all precious and your children are growing fast.
What are you doing this month? I miss you and am looking forward to fall classes!
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Beethoven Pathetique Sonata, Op. 13 - Second Movement
I have been learning the first movement of this piece over the last few months and I hope to perform it someday. It is very 'out of character' for me and has been an amazing growth experience for me as a pianist.
Today, I started working with this second movement and I have always loved it. I think it will feel right at home in my music heart. I feel it is one of the most beautiful melodies in the world.
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Friday, July 18, 2008
Day at the Museum
Thursday, July 17, 2008
i hear music
You can always press pause.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
test for the noodle
See if your brain is as old as your body
~ or ~(perish the thought) ~ OLDER !!
Read the following instructions since the game is in Japanese:
Procedure of Flash Fabrica Game:
1. Touch 'start'
2. Wait for 3, 2, 1.
3. Memorize the number's position on the screen, then click the circle from the SMALLEST number to the BIGGEST number.
4. At the end of game, the computer will tell you the age of your brain. The lower the number, the better. It has to do with the brain's responses to sight and sound. As we age, they get slower....
Tell me your score! My brain is 10 years younger than I am :-) (isn't that a clever way of not revealing my age??)
CLICK HERE
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
5 minute skirt
Friday, July 11, 2008
Thursday, July 10, 2008
I found a great article: What to do so your kids won't stress you out. I think we can all relate from time to time! :-)
Monday, July 7, 2008
Saturday, July 5, 2008
Friday, July 4, 2008
Happy 4th of July!
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Good stuff
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Your Child's Self-Esteem
"The first step in building your child's esteem is to examine your own feelings--to even be willing to expose those heretofore unconscious guilt-laden attitudes...are you secretly disappointed because your child is ordinary? Lacks appeal and charm? Do you think he is dumb? Was she born during a difficult time, imposing a financial and physical stress on the family? Did you want a girl instead of a boy or vice versa? Do you resent the freedom you lost or the demands a child places on your time and effort? Does he embarrass you by being too loud or too withdrawn?
You can't teach a child to respect himself when you dislike him for reasons of your own. A sizeable portion of your chlid's self-concept emerges from the way he thinks you "see" him. He watches what you say and do with interest. He is more alert to your "statements" regarding his worth than on any other subject. He reads your unspoken and perhaps unconscious attitudes.
The child convinced of parental love and respect is inclined to accept worth as a person. Many children know intuitively they are loved by their parents, but they do not believe they are held in high esteem. This seems so contradictory. A child can conclude: Sure they love me because I'm their child--I can see that I'm important to them, but they are not proud of me as a person. I'm a disappointment to them. I've let them down. I'm not turning out as they had hoped.
It's easy to convey love and disrespect at the same time. You are tense when your child speaks to guests or outsiders. You butt in to explain what he was trying to say, or laugh nervously if the remarks sound foolish. When someone asks him a direct question, you interrupt and answer. You reveal your frustration when you are trying to comb his hair or make him "look nice" for an important event. He knows you think it is an impossible assignment. If he is to spend a weekday away from the family, you give him an extended lecture on how to avoid making a fool of himself. These subtle behavious are signals to the child that he must be supervised closely to avoid embarrassing the whole family.
Disrespect can be read into your manner, though it is framed in genuine love. The love is a private thing between you, whereas confidence and admiration are "other" oriented, having social implications to those outside the family.
Loving your child, therefore, is only half the task of building self-esteem. The element of respect must be added to counterbalance the insults of society. Unless somebody believes in the child's worth, the world can be a cold and lonely place indeed."
(I've experienced middle school with my daughter and can wholeheartedly agree with the coldness).
I hope this gave you pause like it did me.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Monday, June 23, 2008
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Nest is full again
We've already gotten the dusty laundry sorted and started. I'm sure she will be talking about the trip for a whole week, and I love hearing about it. She has gained so much from this trip, I can tell already. Something is 'different'. In a very good way.
Last week, we were 'kidless' and boy was that a treat for my husband and I. (My son was at his Great Gluten Escape camp in East Texas).....the house was immaculate, things were so....uncomplicated. It's amazing how much goes into these kids!
And so.......here's the reality now that the chicks are back in the nest.....
The bathroom they share will be in disarray soon.
There wil be dishes left in their rooms.
There will be chores that need to be assigned and nagged about to get them done.
Mom's taxi service will be up and running again, taking them hither and yon.
More laundry.
More dishes.
More food prep.
Random shoes, books, clothes, games, guitar music, etc. left in places they shouldn't be.
Noise.
But, I'm so glad they're home!!! :-)
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
sit, stay, roll over
Click on this link and enjoy this with your toddler. Turn up the speakers and tell the dog to do tricks. Very cute!
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
squishy
Thanks for the idea Bernadette
Monday, June 16, 2008
quote
"If I had my child to raise all over again,
I'd build self-esteem first, and the house later.
I'd finger-paint more, and point the finger less.
I would do less correcting and more connecting.
I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.
I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.
I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play.
I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars.
I'd do more hugging and less tugging."
Saturday, June 14, 2008
And she's off
She will learn so much. I can't wait to get an earful when she gets back. For now, I have to be satisfied with quick texts and a phone call when I can get them.
Friday, June 13, 2008
something new this summer
What are you doing this summer to grow?
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Thursday, June 5, 2008
i love dirt
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
craft time
Next class, we're making this.
Monday, June 2, 2008
A love for reading begins at home
Saturday, May 31, 2008
Nocturne in f minor by Frederic Chopin
Thursday, May 29, 2008
inspiring
VERY inspirational story a friend sent me today.....
The boy is amazing....but more amazing is his mother.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Honing my teaching skills
The purpose of our 2008 Kindermusik Convention is to celebrate who we are as a community and as individuals – passionate educators and entrepreneurs making a difference in the lives of children and families through Kindermusik.
The convention helps me to grow as a teacher. To be better for my families. You! It is 4 jam-packed days of learning. I am totally, joyfully exhausted when I'm done! I come home completely inspired.
Why did Kindermusik International pick “a good beginning never ends” as the theme this year?
Because we will be celebrating 30 years of Kindermusik!
Because we will celebrate the beautiful benefit a child gains for life.
Because we will celebrate the relationship that grows from pleased parent, to loyal customer, to friend.
Thank you for being that to me. Right at this moment, I can say I have truly gained the bulk of my friendships from my Kindermusik family.
Some tv, in moderation, can be ok, but.......
here are few things your children are NOT doing when watching tv....
1. Scanning
2. Practicing gross and fine motor skills
3. Practicing eye-hand coordination
4. Using more than 2 senses
5. Asking questions
6. Exploring
7. Exercising innovation and motivation
8. Being challenged
9. Solving problems
10. Thinking analytically
11. Exercising imagination
12. Practicing communication skills
13. Being either creative or constructive
Read more about how tv affects your child by clicking here.
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Friday, May 23, 2008
Thursday, May 22, 2008
I love getting new music
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
do you have music in your summer?
Monday, May 19, 2008
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Kindermusik Grad Fiesta
I am definitely going to make this an annual event.
Although... it was bittersweet that Kindermusik Young Child IV is really over. I was a little sad when cleaning up after everyone left.
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Young Child II Graduates 2008
Can't wait for the Fiesta Saturday!
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Zales Mother's Day 2008 commercial
Every one of you deserves diamonds! :-) I wish for you sweet simple moments that are meaningful, peaceful and joyful. Happy Mother's Day!
Thursday, May 8, 2008
i like this
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Last Night the Rain Spoke to Me
the rain
spoke to me
slowly, saying
what joy
to come falling
out of a brisk cloud,
to be happy again
in a new way
on the earth!
That's what it said
as it dropped,
smelling of iron,
and vanished
like a dream of the ocean
into the branches
and the grass below.
Then it was over.
The sky cleared.
I was standing
under a tree.
The tree was a tree
with happy leaves,
and I was myself,
and there were stars in the sky
that were also themselves
at the moment
at which moment
my right hand
was holding my left hand
which was holding the tree
which was filled with stars
and the soft rain -
imagine! imagine!
the long and wondrous journeys
still to be ours.
Mary Oliver
Friday, May 2, 2008
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Sensory Learning - Sensory Input
This helps explain the multi-sensory learning we talk about in Kindermusik classes!
Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Two friends making music
How cool is this? I love the expressions from the man who is standing, and hearing their laughter at the end.
Friday, April 25, 2008
New Rewards Program starting this fall
1. New Referral Incentive! Refer a friend who enrolls in a Kindermusik class and receive a gift certificate for $25 off your next Kindermusik semester (no limit!)
2. New Baby Discount! Every new baby in a current Kindermusik family now receives 8 weeks of Village classes tuition free, just pay for materials! Must be used by the time your little one is 6 months old.
3. Early Bird Priority Registration! Register or re-enroll during the Priority Registration period and receive a special instrument, t-shirt or CD FREE.
4. Bring a Friend! You are invited to bring a friend to a free Kindermusik class (with a reservation) at any time during the semester.
5. December Holiday party! Family fun night – bring the whole family to a holiday class and enjoy all of the musical activities and fun! No charge to you. Just another way to say Thank You.
6. Open Make Up Policy! If you should miss your regularly scheduled class, you may make up a class at any time throughout the semester (please call for reservation).
7. Family Multiple Discounts! $20 discount for a second child enrolled in a DIFFERENT curricula, and HALF-OFF tuition discount for siblings enrolled in the SAME CLASS. Siblings must both be within specific age range if enrolled in same class. Sibling kit discount will also apply!
And don’t forget there are 7 more important Rewards – the joy, learning and growth you and your child can share through the first Seven, Magnificent, Musical Kindermusik years of your child’s life!
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Added location to serve you better
Monday, April 21, 2008
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
El Sistema: Saving children in Venezuela through music
El Sistema: Changing Lives Through Music
"Music produces an irreversible transformation in a child. It remains part of who they are. Forever.", says Gustavo Dudamel, conductor of "El Sistema".
I couldn't agree more.
You will be inspired.
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Edible Flowers
To prepare the flowers for class (and for eating if you choose), I give them a gentle bath in a very mild soap solution. I then rinse them thoroughly in a clear water solution by “swishing” them and I pat them very gently with a paper towels to dry them. This retains their freshness and scent, but removes any types of residue that might be on the flower. You should not eat flowers that you have sprayed or sprinkled with pesticides or any such thing.
There are many websites with information about edible flowers. I like this one because it gives you the pictures and explains what the flower tastes like. NOT ALL FLOWERS ARE EDIBLE!! Sometimes just parts are edible; like tulip petals are edible, but you should never eat the bulb.
Thanks to Christa for help with this post.